When you get engaged and decide to get married it is one of the best times in your relationship. However, wedding planning can be stressful and not very romantic. Here are some ideas for couples who want to make planning a wedding, just as enjoyable as the thought of the wedding itself.
Personalize your wedding by including things that represent your spouse-to-be, and the bond between the both of you. Choose a theme that matches your time together!
The photos taken during your wedding are important as you’ll look at these a lot of times during your lifetime. Select a professional to take your pictures, and do not be afraid to go above your budget if you have the money to ensure that you get the best photographs possible.
Set a date outside of the wedding season. The wedding season is traditionally from May through September. These are the times when wedding venues are most expensive. If you decide to have your wedding during these months, you will get a better deal by booking far ahead of time.
Use a friend or family member’s property for your wedding. If you’re friends with someone who owns a large backyard, you can have a cheaper wedding there. Offer to pay people to come into the place ahead of time to do some cleaning and then after the event, and that will be the only costs.
Transportation is an important thing to think about. Some guests might need a ride to their hotel, so make sure there are taxis available (at minimum). This is great for those that have had alcohol at the wedding.
If you cannot justify the cost of a thousand-dollar wedding cake, consider contacting a local bakery and inquiring about single-serving portions, like cupcakes or cake pops. Many bakeries can provide wedding cupcakes that come in at 100 calories or less per serving. Other healthier options include gluten-free pastries, no-calorie sweeteners, and icing alternatives, such as meringue or fruit spreads.
One consideration in wedding planning is alcohol service. You’ll want to determine the way that meets you needs, including the cost and the way to serve the kinds of alcohol that you prefer. Open bars are expensive, especially if they’re open for a long time. Ask the venue you’re thinking of having the wedding at about the different types of alcohol they serve, and what they have in stock.
If you wish to have a wedding cake that stands out and is a focal point in your reception, you may want to consider a matching piece of fabric. Your fabric could have patterns or solids and range from heavy textures to silk or satin. All of this can play up visual interest and tie various facets together into a cohesive aesthetic.
Couples that keep the above tips in mind might be able to reverse the common scenario and have the wedding planning process bring them together, rather than stress them out. Planning a wedding with your future spouse is great way to see how you will deal with challenges, providing you with an excellent foundation for your marriage. Follow these pieces of advice to not only create a wonderful wedding experience for yourselves, but also to lay the groundwork for a lifetime of cooperation and mutual support.